November 4, 2021
The Alzheimer’s society have posted some great tips about supporting those with dementia this bonfire night.
Bonfire night can be spectacular for some but for those living with dementia it can be distressing due to the loud noises and flashing lights.
Here are some helpful tips to support you and your loved ones this Friday…
Ahead of fireworks night, let the person with dementia know it’s coming up. You may be able to gauge how they feel about the festivities and whether they’d like to be involved.
Some people with dementia may not want to be alone on fireworks night or take part, so finding something you can do together may help.
Speak to neighbours about their plans too. If they’re setting off fireworks nearby, this may be distressing for someone with dementia. You can choose to go to a friend’s house instead or watch from home if they’d prefer to.
Toffee apples, hot chocolate and bonfires – firework events can be great fun for all the family.
If you do plan on going to a local display, be sure it’s professionally run and check that all coronavirus guidelines will be met. Official events adhere to strict fire and safety regulations to keep everyone safe on the night. Guided walkways and designated viewings areas are also there to help everyone enjoy themselves.
To help the person with dementia feel more comfortable, check that there aren’t too many people, too much activity, loud noises, sudden movements or an uncomfortable environment. For example, a set of fireworks is too close or bright.
If it does get too much, it’s good to have someone on hand to take them inside or to a quieter area (near the back).
The person you’re caring for may feel the cold far more than you do, but may not realise it or may be unable to tell you. Encourage wearing layers of clothing, ideally with natural fibres such as cotton and wool. Drinking hot beverages can also help people stay warm.
Many people also choose to wear ear defenders.
There are lots of ways a person with dementia can enjoy fireworks if they do not wish to go to an event.
You may want to use sparklers at home. Or you could watch the displays from a distance or inside – giving you the opportunity to enjoy the spectacle of colours without the loud noises or big crowds.
A bonfire night dinner is also a fun way to celebrate the occasion. Cooking familiar foods, like jacket potatoes and hotdogs, can help evoke memories (and taste delicious!).
Fireworks are not for everyone and that’s OK. If the person is distressed by the noise, think about alternative activities you can enjoy together such as films, audiobooks or music.
Provide reassurance by talking calmly and providing touch or hugging, if the person is distressed.
With thanks to the Alzheimer’s society for sharing such wonderful advice.